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The Cycle of Abuse Stops With You | The WISDOM podcast | S3 E34

The Cycle of Abuse Stops With You | The WISDOM podcast | S3 E34

April 5, 2022

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The Cycle of Abuse Stops With You | A Real Life Client Story

The WISDOM podcast  Season 3  Episode 34

There is no power in abuse.  -

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Ross’s* story is one of psychological and verbal abuse and the damaging effects that cast a pattern of believing and living as a victim. To live your life entrenched in the sadness and suffering of your past is to carry the baggage of victim hood with you.

 

This inner and often outer label that you have given yourself imparts confusion and self-doubt. Its mark is one of unworthiness and feeling undeserving of love. You struggle with this because at your core, you know that you are worthy. It is just that it can be difficult to find and feel evidence for this.

 

The damage inflicted by a repetitive cycle of the trauma of abuse is not entirely known until some later time in our life in which we find ourselves reliving the pattern ~ the experience ~ the rhythm ~ quite innocently.

 

 

The nature of abuse that begins in childhood can be concealed with the cursory titles of ‘father’ and ‘mother’ ~ of caregiver, family member, elder, sibling, and ‘family friend’. It becomes confusing when a parent or another caregiver is the abuser because this person is supposed to be a protector of our safety and a nurturer of our care and love.

 

As you are listening, this episode will help define your experience. Having a name for the behaviour that you were the recipient of, will give you the ability to better understand why this relationship has been so damaging and why you have continued to suffer.

 

This is how you heal from the damage you have suffered. You heal first as you name the abuse and then as you choose to no longer live it.

 

I recognize that this is a new way of thinking about what has caused you to suffer. You may in your journey of healing also wish to speak with someone who can help you reclaim your power. If you would like my help as you stop the cycle of abuse and to what you have suffered, please reach out to me. Let me help.

 

*The name of my client and others, have been changed to maintain confidentiality. The situations of his story are real and truthful.

 

 

Each Tuesday at 8pm EST, I take you on a journey - inside - what happens in a session of Life Coaching and Therapy in the 'ask dorothy' series as we answer the questions that honour your path and your life.

 

Sending you great 💜 love...

 

Sharing the wisdom and beauty of divine love with you...

Namaste!

love, dorothy

 

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More h e a l i n g  and  w i s d o m:

* How to Live As Love  [YouTube Video]

* The Dangers of Self-Sacrifice  [Podcast Episode]

* The Voice of Trauma  [Podcast Episode]

* Live Your Greatness [Podcast Episode Season 1]

* This Is A Self-Love Movement  [YouTube Video]

* The Ultimate Self-Love WISDOM toolkit

* Self-Love: A Meditation to Heal Your Life  [The Wisdom Archives]

* Do You Let Love In? How to Feel Deserving of Love  [Podcast Episode]

* Work with Me [Life Coaching & Therapy]

 

A generous 'thank you' to Audio Engineer, P. Kirpikau  radioplato

Podcast Theme Music: 'Aura' from the Album, Illuvia by Eternell  www.eternell.net/album/illuvia

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Voice of Trauma | The WISDOM podcast | S3 E33

The Voice of Trauma | The WISDOM podcast | S3 E33

April 1, 2022

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The Voice of Trauma

The WISDOM podcast  Season 3  Episode 33

 

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When you give your traumatic experience a voice it means that you do more than retell the story or ruminate on the anxiety and fear from a victim standpoint. If you are ready to release the trauma ~ to transcend it ~ ‘it’ first needs the expression of your honesty and truth. ~

 

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In this episode we look to the importance of giving trauma a voice; of acknowledging the hurt that has been caused to you by another and to give a compassionate and honourable voice to help others heal what trauma you have caused.

 

“When you acknowledge your mistakes ~ particularly mistakes in which you have caused harm to another whether intentionally or unintentionally, you hold the power to help heal the relationship and the experience of another.

 

You also free yourself from the hurt that you have caused and you create the opportunity for transformation ~ to no longer cause suffering through your words and actions.”

 

Trauma is defined as: a hurt and a wound ~ whether emotional, physical, or psychological.

The way out of trauma is through active healing and the choice to no longer live as a victim.

 

To give trauma a voice is to acknowledge where you are in relation to your experience.

 

Whether the trauma was fifteen years or three months earlier, it is still not of the present. It’s imprint can only cause you harm if you consciously or subconsciously continue to dwell on replaying the trauma ~ of what is the past and cannot be changed.

 

To give a traumatic situation a voice ~ is to acknowledge what wrong doing you are responsible for.

 

For example, if you lose control of your emotions and react with anger and this anger escalates further in your conflict into rage, and as you direct your rage at another ~ is it enough to say “I’m sorry?”

 

“I’m sorry” is a start. It is in the remorse and empathy you feel together with compassion for the suffering of another that you were responsible for, that you must give voice to.

 

Your voice is the acknowledgement of sorrow and the admittance of wrong doing. This and any other steps that you can take to help another become the tools of healing for you both.

 

Trauma for any past situation is the trauma that you need to give voice to ~ to say “this happened”. This happened and then I did this to heal from what happened.

This is how you live empowered to continue your journey of truth seeking ~ and your delivery into who and what you live now.

 

 

 

Sending you great 💜 love...

 

Sharing the wisdom and beauty of divine love with you...

Namaste!

love, dorothy

 

If you have a question or if you would like my guidance or help, please reach out to me:  dorothy@dorothyratusny.com

 

Find all Episodes of The WISDOM podcast here  

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More Healing and Self-Love:  💜

 

*  Prayers for Healing Trauma [PDF with links to Two Mantra Prayers 🙏]

*  Emotional Intelligence and Trauma  [Podcast Episode]

*  The Cycle of Abuse Stops With You  [Podcast Episode]

*  Forgiveness IS F R E E D O M  [Podcast Episode]

*  This Is A Self-Love Movement  [YouTube Video]

*  The Ultimate Self-Love WISDOM toolkit

*  Self-Love Toolkit: The Self-Reflection Bundle

*  Self-Love Toolkit: The Self-Compassion and Kindness Bundle

*  Self-Love Toolkit: The Self-Forgiveness Bundle

*  Self-Love Toolkit: The Self-Awareness and Acceptance Bundle

* Self-Love: A Meditation to Heal Your Life  [The Wisdom Archives]

*  The Power of Self-Honesty: How Honest Are You Willing To Be?  [Podcast Episode Season 3]

 

* Work with Me [Life Coaching & Therapy]

*  Receive my Weekly Love Notes  [Sign up Here]

 

 

A generous 'thank you' to Audio Engineer, P. Kirpikau  radioplato

Podcast Theme Music: 'Aura' from the Album, Illuvia by Eternell  www.eternell.net/album/illuvia

 

 

 

 

When Is It Burnout? | ‘ask dorothy’ | A Real Life Client Story | The WISDOM podcast  | S2 E83

When Is It Burnout? | ‘ask dorothy’ | A Real Life Client Story | The WISDOM podcast | S2 E83

June 23, 2021

'ask dorothy'

When Is It Burnout?| A Real Life Client Story

The WISDOM podcast  Season 2 Episode 83

 

If you are listening because you have been wondering if what you are feeling is burnout; if the past nearly sixteen months at the time of release of this episode has been some of the most challenging of your adult life; and if you can’t seem to shake the lack of motivation; the dulled or blunted emotions, the constant pressure you have placed upon yourself and what you feel from others; and the chronic emotional and physical exhaustion that has become your new normalcy, here I offer some of the best strategies and novel ideas to help you shake the feeling of exhaustion and burnout that you’ve been living with in one full swoop. The prescription is simple; the challenge will be to make this a new solid habit that you integrate as a lifestyle practice.

 

Dive in with me to this. You are closer than you think to reaching the other side; to release the symptoms of burnout and instead enjoy the experience of continual rejuvenation, relief, imagination, inspiration and hope.

 

Listen as I share my client Kim's* story of how she unknowingly crossed over into the zone of burnout and what best practices and strategies were most helpful to change her approach to her work and to the rest of her life.

 

*The name of my client has been changed to maintain confidentiality. Her story is real.

 

Resources and Recommended Reading:

Burnout Signs

Online Burnout Checklist

 

Sending you great 💜love...

 

Sharing the wisdom and beauty of divine love with you...

Namaste!

love, dorothy

 

If you have a question or if you would like my guidance or help, please reach out to me:  dorothy@dorothyratusny.com

 

Find all Episodes of The WISDOM podcast here  

Love in your inbox?  Subscribe to my weekly WISDOM Notes here

Visit me on social media💜 :  Twitter   Instagram

 

More Resources and Love:

This Is A Self-Love Movement  [YouTube Video]

* The Ultimate Self-Love WISDOM toolkit

* Self-Love: A Meditation to Heal Your Life  [The Wisdom Archives]

 

A generous 'thank you' to Audio Engineer, P. Kirpikau  radioplato

Podcast Theme Music: 'Aura' from the Album, Illuvia by Eternell  www.eternell.net/album/illuvia

 

 

 

 

 

What’s Beneath Your Anger? | ‘ask dorothy’ | A Real Life Client Story | The WISDOM podcast  | S2 E81

What’s Beneath Your Anger? | ‘ask dorothy’ | A Real Life Client Story | The WISDOM podcast | S2 E81

June 15, 2021

'ask dorothy'

What's Beneath Your Anger?| A Real Life Client Story

The WISDOM podcast  Season 2 Episode 81

 

A recent session with my client Hayley illuminated what we have all experienced; and what surfaced during our time together was the simplicity of what you can do to help yourself in situations where you feel an unwanted and uncomfortable emotion. In Hayley’s case, she identified it as agitation, irritation, and a growing feeling of anger.

 

I dove right in to the question: What’s beneath the anger? Hayley laughed and replied, “Good question!”

 

Sometimes we just need to stop for a moment and do a deep dive into our self. Our focus can be on getting through something or pushing past an emotion and we may not realize how important it is to stop and acknowledge our feelings. Hayley knew immediately why she was feeling unnerved and – her words: “unraveled”.

The name of my client has been changed to maintain confidentiality. Her story is real.

 

Resources and Recommended Reading:

Feeling Angry

 

Sending you great 💜love...

 

Sharing the wisdom and beauty of divine love with you...

Namaste!

love, dorothy

 

If you have a question or if you would like my guidance or help, please reach out to me:  dorothy@dorothyratusny.com

Find all Episodes of The WISDOM podcast here  

Love in your inbox?  Subscribe to my weekly WISDOM Notes here

Visit me on social media💜 :  Twitter   Instagram

 

More Resources and Love:

This Is A Self-Love Movement  [YouTube Video]

* The Ultimate Self-Love WISDOM toolkit

* Self-Love: A Meditation to Heal Your Life  [The Wisdom Archives]

 

A generous 'thank you' to Audio Engineer, P. Kirpikau  radioplato

Podcast Theme Music: 'Aura' from the Album, Illuvia by Eternell  www.eternell.net/album/illuvia

 

 

 

 

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